1. Fix your posture. Your lifestyle leaves marks on your body, and one of the ways it does this is through your posture. People who spend all their time in front of a computer or at a desk often develop a bad posture that makes them look downtrodden and unhealthy. Check out my blog post on improving your posture for tips.
2. Improve your style. Your clothes communicate a lot about you, and if you don’t know what you’re communicating, your probably communicating cluelessness. You don’t need to blow a lot of money trying to convey status, but you should pay attention to the way you dress to communicate confidence, intelligence and a bit of social savvy. StyleForum or the Male Fashion Advice Reddit are good places to start for guys who are clueless.
3. Work out. You don’t need to be a bodybuilder, or be buffed, but regular exercise is the key to being healthy, and being healthy is the key to looking good. My post Ten Fitness tips that will Really Change You has some good fitness advice and links for a beginner. Also check out Reddit Fitness for a basic info source.
4. Eat Healthy. The average American has a terrible diet, and this is the major cause of obesity, bad skin, low energy, and probably contributes to depression and low self-esteem in many people. My principle is that if I can’t tell what plant or animal it came from, it’s probably not good for me.
5. Work on your Body Language: The way you carry yourself is more important than you think. Love Systems has some awesome body language resources. Here are a bunch of body language videos done by some top Love Systems instructors. You can also check out our Beyond Words product, which has some awesome reviews at the Attraction Forums.
6. Work on your beliefs: Even if you’re a good-looking guy, women probably aren’t going to be throwing themselves at you, or walking up to you and giving you compliments out of the blue. That just isn’t the way it works, usually. Even good-looking guys need to take the initiative, approach, and move the interaction forward. It’s not enough to just BE good-looking – you have to FEEL good-looking and act with the attitude and beliefs of a guy who is desirable to women. Once you have that attitude, and communicate it, the complements start rolling in.
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